indulge in that could badly harm our relationships.
Here's a rundown...
Nagging: Nobody likes a nagger. In fact it could
potentially be toxic for a lot of your relationships. It's
important to let your partner be and not interfere as
much. There's a thin line between being cute and
being annoying, know when to draw that line or it can
be destructive for your relationship.
Comparing: Learn to appreciate your partner and
love him or her for what they are instead of
constantly comparing them to every Tom, Dick and
Harry. Even if you're doing it subconsciously in your
head- stop. And mentioning it to them is an absolute
no-no. Your partner deserves better than that.
Talking about your ex: Nobody would like to feel
like they're constantly being held up for comparison
with your previous lovers. A sure way of ruining your
own relationship is by continually bringing up your
past liaisons. Till your both reach a stage of security,
steer clear of this topic.
Bad communication: Only half-listening to your
partner and nodding your head for everything
without really paying much attention can be
detrimental for your relationship in the long run.
Work on your communication and try to really listen
and grasp what your partner is talking about to you.
Bringing up the past: Avoid discussing the past. Its
important to realize that no matter how much you
discuss it or bring it up, it cannot be erased. If you
truly want to be with your partner, then make a
concerted effort to forget his/her past and move on
to newer beginnings. Remember that you are his/her
present.
